Avoid Any Woman Who Sees Cooking For Her Man As A S tressful Job - Kenneth Okonkwo

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     If your woman isn't cooking for you, the chances that you will be happy in that relationship is very slim. I agree that cooking is not a gender-specific skill. Men should know how to cook too. My point is that marrying a woman who sees cooking as a big deal is a red flag.

     Many of you will not be in the relationship you're in if you begin to imagine your partner as not just a partner but a parent. Do I want to be buying food from outside for my kids? Absolutely not. Do I want a live-in house help? Absolutely not. Do I want a family member living with us? Absolutely not.
Even if we will consider having a help, it certainly wouldn't be in the early stages of our marriage, which in my opinion is 5 years.

     A woman who sees cooking for you as a big deal will see cooking for her kids as a big deal. She will see prepping her kids for school early in the morning as a big deal. Before you know it, you are having misunderstandings about who is supposed to do some basic things that common sense should dictate in your marriage.
The madness that is ruining marriages in our generation has nothing to do with civilisation. It is westernisation. It is Satan's agenda against the institution of marriage.
Luckily for you and me, we have a choice. Nobody can be in your life against your will. Submission or drama and stress, the choice is yours.

     If you like, keep pandering towards your emotions, remain in a relationship you very much know you're not supposed to be in to please your spiritual father. Don't leave because of what people will say. Keep enduring the pain and agony that comes with being with a toxic partner because of your parents and to please your in-laws. 
Nothing consine us. And some of us are not that bad. We will gladly read your “please hide my ID” tales of woes and drop motivational quotes in the comment section.

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